Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Weather Worries- Are there any positives?!


Like every horse owner (and possibly every other person in the UK!) I am now rather fed up with the weather.  With the ice and snow comes many a worry about our four legged friends.  Although we are constantly moaning (or is that just me!) the horses seem comparatively unbothered by all the snow and ice.  My boy seems quite happy with his lack of exercise, high volumes of hay and a stretch of the legs every day…an easy life for them, but not so much for us! 

This got me thinking about whether or not there were any plus points to all this freezing weather.  Well it’s a lot of mucking out in the cold which means I can shiver off a few extra calories.  But the lack of riding means I am losing out on building up those core muscles which are really needed for re-schooling my youngster.  However as a bit of a surprise my other half bought me one of these horse riding exercise machines.  Now I can strengthen my core whilst inside in the warm, watching Corrie (much to his amusement).  Now they are not a cheap exercise option but they are a damn site cheaper than keeping a real horse at the moment.        

My horse if shod so riding in the ice and snow isn’t an option, or a risk I am willing to take.  I have tried lining the souls of his hooves with no end of Vaseline or hoof oil but the ice still packs in and I’d rather he had a few days off and felt a bit fresh on soft ground, than run the risk of injury on slippery surfaces- this could leave me with a much worse problem.  However he happily goes out in the field every day and appears to only move from the hay pile to the water, with perhaps a roll in the snow for good measure.  The lack of riding has given me time to do other jobs, my tack has never looked so clean and in fact neither has my house!  Just because you can’t ride it doesn’t mean that you can’t spend time bonding with your horse, grooming him in the warmth of the stable and doing all those jobs such as pulling manes and neatening up feathers.  Then he will be looking lovely once you can get back on board.    Just make sure you have a hot drink to keep you warm, or warm you hand under your horses rug every few minutes as this always feels like a lovely hot water bottle to me. 

I don’t know about you but when the sun is out I can spend all day and evening at my yard so this period of cold weather has given me a chance to spend time with the other important people (and animals) in my life.  As you can see from the photo below, my lovely dog Lexi loves nothing more than a walk in the snow, swiftly followed by a sleep on hot water bottle I might add.  It’s nice to still get out in the fresh air and if you wrap up with layers and keep walking then you do stay warm- just don’t forget your gloves!

The weather has also given me a chance to read a few horsey books that I have had about the house for a while.  This includes two books from the Kelly Marks series- Perfect Confidence and Perfect Partners, as well as Ride with your Mind by Mary Wanless.  I would highly recommend these books to help build strong foundations for your riding and relationship with your horse. 

Despite all this of course I am longing for the sunshine… I think we would all feel a little happier if we were a little warmer and we were actually able to turn the heating off in our houses, put the washing out the dry and actually sponge down our horses after riding them!  So I am keeping my fingers crossed that it won’t be too long before we are spending no end of money on fly spray, sweating during boiling hot during schooling sessions and gasping for a drink after a long hot hack.

Keep thinking warm thoughts and soon it will be summer!        
The sand school has turned into the snow school...
 
 A freezing day of snow and cold winds at the weekend...
 
 Another cold and frosty morning...
 
  

Thursday, March 21, 2013

The Pressure of the Perfect Partner

As a child, and an adult, the impression of horse ownership has never failed to paint a perfect picture.  I have read many an article about the perfect pony or finding your perfect partner.  The combination of facebook status’, twitter comments, beautiful equine photos and quotes, magazine and blog articles that are full of idealistic happy horse tales can’t help but fill you with guilt when you are your equine friend are having an “off” day.  During a difficult day with my horse I was once told there was never a “bad” day of horse ownership which made me question whether I really, truly had ever experienced my “perfect partner” or was I really a terrible horse owner, now overwhelmed by guilt.
 
But let us rethink this for a mini moment (why not pick up a kitkat and ponder on it!)...  Are you really telling me that you’ve never had a bad day with your horse or pony?  Have you never experienced chasing a little terror round the field that won’t be caught in the pouring rain when you are in a rush? Am I alone when I have had the odd day coming back from a hack with steam coming out of my ears due to the bouncing, spooky beast that my horse has developed into overnight?  Or perhaps it’s only me who’s horse occasionally feels so fresh on the lunge you developed skis, suddenly jumps on your toe when you put the clippers near him, rips a brand new rug within 24hours or even looses the ability to halt in a dressage test (sideways, backwards, up and down we can manage- but stand still, just forget it!)!  Now maybe, just maybe, it is me and me alone who experiences a “bad” horsey day, but if this is the case, then I am filling up an awful lot of online horsey forum posts with my difficult experiences…

Let’s start at the beginning with the added pressure of horse hunting.  Never before has the phrase of “buyer beware” been more appropriate.  You have so been longing to get your own horse and find your equine soul mate, when soon into the process you realise that the equine market isn’t quite as it seems.  The combination of inaccurate descriptions, peculiar horse owners, travelling the country and failed vettings leave you feeling rather deflated and the pressure to get this hell over and finally find the one is mounting.  Finally, when you thought you couldn’t bear to drive another mile to find that perfect partner, there he is.  A beautiful happy equine, gleaming clean, he knows his owner and location inside out, oozes confidence and has the face of an angel.  No sooner have you fallen in love, he’s coming home with you and you can start your perfect partnership together.
But is it really perfect?  And should it be?  Can you really expect to take a horse from everything and everyone he knows and expect everything to fall into place, run like clockwork and for you to instantly know the answers to everything he needs.  Much equine literature would lead you to believe this is an idealistic process but I would ask you to consider other significant relationships in your life.  Have you never had a battle with your significant other over something silly?  Did you instantly know what your better (or worse!) half was thinking when you first got together?  I think, and hope, the majority of people would answer no of course not, and neither would we expect to.  So is it really fair to expect this from our horses and perhaps we should not be so frustrated with ourselves, or our horses if we have the occasional off day.

I am not writing this to convince you that the perfect equine partner for you doesn’t exist and everything beautiful you have ever read about horse ownership isn’t true.  Of course he does and of course it is. I don’t love my other half any less for his annoying habits and I don’t love my horse any less for dashing across the school when a leaf turned over yesterday.  But maybe it’s time to consider your ideal horsey match with a little less pressure attached to them.  For as long as you want to go back after the bad days and make the next day a good one for the both of you, then there you have it- your perfect pony partner!
Enjoy your horses, and learn from it all, the good days and the challenging ones!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

The Annoyance of Internet Shopping!

Now you might read the title of this blog and ask yourself why on earth the blog of an internet retailer is posting an article about how annoying internet shopping can be!!!  Well the answer is in that first statement, it can be annoying, but it doesn't have to be...

Juggling work, studying, a horse, a dog, a house etc, I am a big fan of shopping online. I can fit it in at a convenient time, compare products and prices easily, all from the comfort of my own home- happy days (you would think).  So with my ever growing and changing horse the need to purchase equipment is an ongoing job and the past few months I seem to be constantly updating his wardrobe.  With three large orders placed online I could tick products off my list and await their arrival (or so I thought!). 

Order No 1- the following day I get an email saying that the products would be with me in 3 weeks time!! I had paid for next day delivery and there was no notification of this delay on their website but apparently this was "standard".  This resulted in me getting rather frustrated and consequently got a refund- back to the drawing board for these items.

Order No 2- delayed by the courier.  Turns up 3 days then items were missing from the package!! Grrrr, now had to buy alternatives elsewhere.

Order No 3- Three weeks later I am still waiting for it as apparently it keeps being returned to the sender.  So I am left spending time chasing this up to try and track down where my products actually are...

And dont even get me started on the items I have returned to two rather large retailers that are yet to even process my refund!

Now this might just be a run of bad luck for me as I do shop a lot online but honestly it is really rather annoying!  If this article hasn't convinced you to shop on the high street and never return to the internet again then I can assure you that at The Horse Diva we do our very best to ensure these kinds of problems are minimized at every opportunity.  It is these kinds of experiences that make The Horse Diva team work extremely hard to avoid such problems and provide an excellent and HAPPY customer service.  Orders are dispatched the same or next day, beautifully packaged to ensure safe delivery and gifts can be wrapped straight for the recipient.  Now I cannot promise that there wont be the odd mistake (we are human after all!) but we will always be there to provide a friendly, helpful and efficient service be it via phone or email and we will of course apologise if mistakes are made.  We are happy to answer any questions, help with guidance on presents and advise the non horsey person without talking to you like you are a complete fool.  Basically we aim to provide service suitable for a Diva with high expectations!

So if you have ANY questions about our products, what we do, requests for new ranges, suggestions for blog topics, or just want a bit of a chit chat about anything equine then drop us a line via our website, facebook page, or twitter.  We love to hear from you!

Happy horse riding to all you Horse Divas out there xx